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B E G I N N E R'S M I N D buddhist meditation


Slippery
Philippa woke me this morning to tell me about a dream. What did I think it meant? This is what she told me: “A woman has disappeared...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 241 min read
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Doing It Again and Doing It Different
Good Friday, and a sudden insight comes to me that at the heart of different forms of spiritual practice is a re-enactment of a pivotal...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 183 min read
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Keeping the Best for First
I just keep realising how important the very first things we learn about mindfulness are and how over and over again these lessons are...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 35 min read
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Greasy Glasses
It’s strange how an idea for a blog pings into existence. This one is made up of three elements: a rather strict Buddhist teaching I...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 253 min read
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What Happens in the Mind of a Meditation Teacher?
This morning I decided to really notice what my mind did when I sat to practice meditation. I talk a lot about the importance of really...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 173 min read
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Just Hanging Out
Along time ago I asked someone I knew what sort of meditation they were doing. They, like me, were interested in Tibetan Buddhism so the...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 74 min read
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Being a Snail
Once again our small group has struck gold. In the book we are reading - Henry Shukman’s Original Love - he throws in a section on the...
Nigel Wellings
Feb 63 min read
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Killing with Kindness
Yesterday was a dark day, a narcissistic monster took the reigns of one of the most powerful countries in the world and immediately...
Nigel Wellings
Jan 214 min read
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Love and the Locked Room
Yesterday we had lunch with two friends - one of whom is soon to become a Jungian Analyst. Chatting, an idea came up which I said during...
Nigel Wellings
Jan 203 min read
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What’s in the Cupboard?
A member of our group - I’m sure she won’t mind me saying her name, Suzanne - very kindly gave me a book for Christmas. It’s called Into...
Nigel Wellings
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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A frog sits by a pond, plop.
For many years I was persecuted - yes, I know it’s a strong word - by something that the Archetypal Psychologist, James Hillman had...
Nigel Wellings
Dec 18, 20243 min read
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Waking at Night
I have noticed since the disaster of the American election that my fear levels have gone up. It’s as if I am subliminally walking around...
Nigel Wellings
Nov 19, 20243 min read
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I’m Afraid of Americans
There is an American drama called Berlin Station that is about the CIA machinations in Europe. The opening song is a powerful riff that...
Nigel Wellings
Nov 6, 20243 min read
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Mr. Smarty Pants
This blog comes from two sources - let’s see if I can bring them together. The first was a trip to Avebury that Philippa and I made a...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 24, 20243 min read
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I Feel So Frightened
I woke this morning not knowing quite what I was feeling but not happy. Then when I sat I realised that there was something disturbing...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 15, 20242 min read
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I've Been Bullied
I think I’ve been bullied. It’s an unfamiliar feeling and it took me a while to recognise it. The context was a conversation. I felt...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 8, 20242 min read
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What To Do With Hate
There are a lot of emotions around at the moment about the horror of the Middle East. Why wouldn’t there be, emotions tell us what...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 5, 20243 min read
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Love, Itself Was Gone
Yesterday I was talking with a friend about the similarities between the first nation Americans and the Tibetans, both have a very...
Nigel Wellings
Sep 13, 20243 min read
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Caught Myself Out Again
There’s a saying: you never know what goes on in other peoples relationships. I guess it means the weird stuff. Well, one of the weird...
Nigel Wellings
Sep 5, 20244 min read
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Yeah yeah, next
A new friend recently told us how hard being at a retreat had been for her. Her mind had just gone on and on. She then told us about a...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 23, 20243 min read
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