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B E G I N N E R'S M I N D buddhist meditation


A frog sits by a pond, plop.
For many years I was persecuted - yes, I know it’s a strong word - by something that the Archetypal Psychologist, James Hillman had...
Nigel Wellings
Dec 18, 20243 min read


Waking at Night
I have noticed since the disaster of the American election that my fear levels have gone up. It’s as if I am subliminally walking around...
Nigel Wellings
Nov 19, 20243 min read


I’m Afraid of Americans
There is an American drama called Berlin Station that is about the CIA machinations in Europe. The opening song is a powerful riff that...
Nigel Wellings
Nov 6, 20243 min read


Mr. Smarty Pants
This blog comes from two sources - let’s see if I can bring them together. The first was a trip to Avebury that Philippa and I made a...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 24, 20243 min read


I Feel So Frightened
I woke this morning not knowing quite what I was feeling but not happy. Then when I sat I realised that there was something disturbing...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 15, 20242 min read


I've Been Bullied
I think I’ve been bullied. It’s an unfamiliar feeling and it took me a while to recognise it. The context was a conversation. I felt...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 8, 20242 min read


What To Do With Hate
There are a lot of emotions around at the moment about the horror of the Middle East. Why wouldn’t there be, emotions tell us what...
Nigel Wellings
Oct 5, 20243 min read


Love, Itself Was Gone
Yesterday I was talking with a friend about the similarities between the first nation Americans and the Tibetans, both have a very...
Nigel Wellings
Sep 13, 20243 min read


Caught Myself Out Again
There’s a saying: you never know what goes on in other peoples relationships. I guess it means the weird stuff. Well, one of the weird...
Nigel Wellings
Sep 5, 20244 min read


Yeah yeah, next
A new friend recently told us how hard being at a retreat had been for her. Her mind had just gone on and on. She then told us about a...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 23, 20243 min read


I Love Trump (really?)
Well, perhaps not, but should I try? It’s a good question for those of us who want to practice Buddhist loving kindness and compassion...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 1, 20242 min read


It’s Not All About Me
This morning I tried to write about why we practice this bodhisattva thing - why is it so good to not just do it for ourselves but...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 25, 20243 min read


I’m Not Feeling The Love
Time for another short and practical blog. So what happens if we are invited to do a loving kindness meditation and we find ourselves not...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 18, 20242 min read


Essence Love 3
It seems Tsoknyi Rinpoche’s description of something that he calls ‘essence love’ is not only easily misunderstood but also, when...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 7, 20244 min read


Essence Love 2
In the previous blog on Essence Love I said, ”Tsoknyi Rinpoche offers some exercises that when practiced rebalance our subtle body and...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 3, 20242 min read


Essence Love
The genius of Tsoknyi Rinpoche’s How To Meditate book is that he takes ideas that we already know and repackages them in such a way that...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 27, 20243 min read


So Ordinary You Could Miss It
Last weekend I attended a two day teaching retreat led by someone called Jetson Khandro Rinpoche, a female Tibetan Lama. (Translated her...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 19, 20242 min read


A Light Touch
We have two friends, a couple, who visited us recently. She is a Jungian and he a Zen teacher, a sensei. We don’t really talk about it...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 6, 20245 min read


The Cosy Igloo
This is a quick one but fun. When I came up with the image of our meditation practice being like three rooms with a comfy chair in the...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 5, 20241 min read


Hold On To Your Hat
What does it mean to actually awaken? We frequently distinguish between practicing meditation to help us be healthy human beings and a...
Nigel Wellings
May 23, 20243 min read
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