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I Love Trump (really?)
Well, perhaps not, but should I try? It’s a good question for those of us who want to practice Buddhist loving kindness and compassion...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 1, 20242 min read
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It’s Not All About Me
This morning I tried to write about why we practice this bodhisattva thing - why is it so good to not just do it for ourselves but...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 25, 20243 min read
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I’m Not Feeling The Love
Time for another short and practical blog. So what happens if we are invited to do a loving kindness meditation and we find ourselves not...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 18, 20242 min read
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Essence Love 3
It seems Tsoknyi Rinpoche’s description of something that he calls ‘essence love’ is not only easily misunderstood but also, when...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 7, 20244 min read
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Essence Love 2
In the previous blog on Essence Love I said, ”Tsoknyi Rinpoche offers some exercises that when practiced rebalance our subtle body and...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 3, 20242 min read
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Essence Love
The genius of Tsoknyi Rinpoche’s How To Meditate book is that he takes ideas that we already know and repackages them in such a way that...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 27, 20243 min read
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So Ordinary You Could Miss It
Last weekend I attended a two day teaching retreat led by someone called Jetson Khandro Rinpoche, a female Tibetan Lama. (Translated her...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 19, 20242 min read
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A Light Touch
We have two friends, a couple, who visited us recently. She is a Jungian and he a Zen teacher, a sensei. We don’t really talk about it...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 6, 20245 min read
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The Cosy Igloo
This is a quick one but fun. When I came up with the image of our meditation practice being like three rooms with a comfy chair in the...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 5, 20241 min read
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Hold On To Your Hat
What does it mean to actually awaken? We frequently distinguish between practicing meditation to help us be healthy human beings and a...
Nigel Wellings
May 23, 20243 min read
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Opening the Open Door
How do we recognise our buddha-nature, the awakened mind that is already here and now? This is a tricky question for us, not because it...
Nigel Wellings
May 22, 20244 min read
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'I' Can't Understand
There are so many words and phrases that are difficult to immediately understand in Buddhism. One is the word ‘mind’, which in Sanskrit...
Nigel Wellings
May 10, 20244 min read
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Mapping the Sky
Our small community of practitioners started a new book last night - Why We Meditate by Dan Goleman and Tsoknyi Rinpoche. So where does...
Nigel Wellings
May 2, 20244 min read
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What is it with Comfy Chairs?
Writing a blog is interesting. You can see how many people read it - or at least momentarily open it! Out of all the posts on this site,...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 18, 20243 min read
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This is a Bit Freaky
This is a bit freaky. Reality changes the closer we look. So when we look through a microscope appearance change - we discover that...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 15, 20241 min read
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The (Almost) Impossibility of Doing Nothing
This ’doing nothing’ meditation, resting in an awareness of awareness itself, can become a nightmare. The harder we try the more it...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 11, 20243 min read
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A Capital Letter
A capital letter is an interesting thing - YES, it is! One of the ways we use it is to distinguish between two different types of self:...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 10, 20243 min read
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Much to Learn About Nothing
I can remember the first time I read about looking into my mind for the source of who was looking. I thought that's mad, there's nothing...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 3, 20243 min read
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Tales from the Comfy Chair
During my training years as a psychotherapist, a colleague became pregnant and she attended all of our monthly weekend modules throughout...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 2, 20242 min read
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Eyes Wide Open
Back to something more practical. Why do we practice with our eyes open and looking at a blank space? This question was asked by one of...
Nigel Wellings
Feb 21, 20242 min read
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