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Wearing Patched Trousers
I’m on retreat this week at Sharpham - teaching on Buddhism and psychotherapy. It’s a wonderful space - tiny bit funky but in a...
Nigel Wellings
Sep 11, 20254 min read


Narcissus and Goldmund - a Tribute
Some photos just have something that makes them special. I’m thinking of one of the meditation hall of a Zen centre in New York....
Nigel Wellings
Sep 1, 20254 min read


Empty Furniture
I seem to be on a Jungian roll! After writing the last blog Philippa and I went for a walk with our dog and talked about what I had...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 26, 20254 min read


“This Thing of Darkness I Acknowledge Mine”
Last night, listening to several parents of young children talking it became apparent that they were so concerned to get everything...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 23, 20253 min read


Starting Out Fresh
Why is it so difficult to really understand something so deeply that we feel it is part of who we are? Our small sangha has been...
Nigel Wellings
Aug 10, 20252 min read


I'm In Bits
What it's like to ask our manager subpersonality to stand back? Recently I was thinking about my subpersonalities and how all the...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 23, 20252 min read


I'm Afraid of Myself
It’s strange how we can be afraid of the most extraordinary and precious part of ourselves. A very dear friend was recently telling me...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 12, 20253 min read


I Can't Stop Fiddling
So many of these blogs have been about the ‘doing nothing meditation’ in which we (hopefully) manage to rest for perhaps at first no...
Nigel Wellings
Jul 3, 20254 min read


A Fun Flash of Insight
Having supper with two very dear friends last night the subject of which was better, Buddhism or Jungian psychology came up. This is a...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 15, 20253 min read


Looking in the Mirror
Quite recently our small sangha has been introduced to the meditation practice of ‘guru yoga’. One or two were perhaps initially alarmed...
Nigel Wellings
Jun 2, 20253 min read


Slippery
Philippa woke me this morning to tell me about a dream. What did I think it meant? This is what she told me: “A woman has disappeared...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 24, 20251 min read


Doing It Again and Doing It Different
Good Friday, and a sudden insight comes to me that at the heart of different forms of spiritual practice is a re-enactment of a pivotal...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 18, 20253 min read


Keeping the Best for First
I just keep realising how important the very first things we learn about mindfulness are and how over and over again these lessons are...
Nigel Wellings
Apr 3, 20255 min read


Greasy Glasses
It’s strange how an idea for a blog pings into existence. This one is made up of three elements: a rather strict Buddhist teaching I...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 25, 20253 min read


What Happens in the Mind of a Meditation Teacher?
This morning I decided to really notice what my mind did when I sat to practice meditation. I talk a lot about the importance of really...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 17, 20253 min read


Just Hanging Out
Along time ago I asked someone I knew what sort of meditation they were doing. They, like me, were interested in Tibetan Buddhism so the...
Nigel Wellings
Mar 7, 20254 min read


Being a Snail
Once again our small group has struck gold. In the book we are reading - Henry Shukman’s Original Love - he throws in a section on the...
Nigel Wellings
Feb 6, 20253 min read


Killing with Kindness
Yesterday was a dark day, a narcissistic monster took the reigns of one of the most powerful countries in the world and immediately...
Nigel Wellings
Jan 21, 20254 min read


Love and the Locked Room
Yesterday we had lunch with two friends - one of whom is soon to become a Jungian Analyst. Chatting, an idea came up which I said during...
Nigel Wellings
Jan 20, 20253 min read


What’s in the Cupboard?
A member of our group - I’m sure she won’t mind me saying her name, Suzanne - very kindly gave me a book for Christmas. It’s called Into...
Nigel Wellings
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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